That is truly heartbreaking. Some people seem to have lifes where one tragic events hunts another. One can only hope - and it is what I believe - that there *is* some sense in the lifes of all those who die too young, tragically unfulfilled and through brutal means. It is the thought that the soul choses their own incarnation(s) in search of experiences to help them on their way to completeness and that some brave souls chose a very rough path sometimes.