Okay, I'm going to give you a priceless piece of advice here. It's never done me wrong, and I hope that is also serves you well.
The way to end this nastiness is simple: Silence.
For a while, there will still be heated words, but if you say nothing more, they cannot pick up anything else. Talk of other things, your pets, your house, do not reply to them and do not attack them. Do not look at their livejournals, or look them up. Do not read what they say.
If you do not attack, and do not feed, there will be no more arguments, or "witch hunts".
If you truly want this sort of cattiness to stop, then you must be the bigger person, and stop first.
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Date: 2004-10-05 11:48 pm (UTC)The way to end this nastiness is simple: Silence.
For a while, there will still be heated words, but if you say nothing more, they cannot pick up anything else. Talk of other things, your pets, your house, do not reply to them and do not attack them. Do not look at their livejournals, or look them up. Do not read what they say.
If you do not attack, and do not feed, there will be no more arguments, or "witch hunts".
If you truly want this sort of cattiness to stop, then you must be the bigger person, and stop first.