I haven't got to the place where those wonderful displays of heroism and even-mindedness you describe are set out, and I do not intend to. But if you wanted to show me that this author is either attractive or upright, you have a funny way to go about it. Also, I am not impressed by the way that "friends" of the author keep turning up to defend her and insult me. When I am in a fight with someone, I generally ask my friends to stay out of it; I don't want them to get in trouble, and my enmities are no business of theirs.