fpb, I really think you need to let this issue go for a while. It is becoming a constant rehash of the same arguments on both sides, and I think it's not doing your temper any good at all. This is clearly an issue that is very emotional for you. You are putting up a big sign that says "This is my button, please push it to make me angry."

Your habit of posting new entries with regards to comments elsewhere also gets you into trouble, I think. It just feels very "name and shame" to me. For one thing, I don't think it's very charitable. In how it affects you, I also think it does you harm, both in making you look petty, and in pointing people straight to trouble. Dwelling on it is not helping. Remember St. Paul's advice to the Philippians: "Whatsoever things are true, whatsoever modest, whatsoever just, whatsoever holy, whatsoever lovely, whatsoever of good fame, if there be any virtue, if any praise of discipline, think on these things."

Just some friendly advice. *hugs*