Just to be clear, this is something I have been thinking about mentioning to you for a little while, not something with regards to this particular person. I am speaking generally, not specifically, when I say that I think that your making of new posts regarding trouble in your comments is harmful, not least to you.

Even if there is zero chance of reconciliation with this particular person, is it not better to be magnanimous and not call attention to her faults as you see them?

Now I have said my piece.