Being squalidly sentimental and placing one's own poor wee feelings is not selfishness. It's not, is it? I already told you that all that talk about feelings is nothing but excuses, and what is more the selfishness is plain - it's all about me, me, me. If I want a baby, it's about me, not about the baby. As for your other sob story, take it to someone who cares. In Europe, such behaviour is illegal and could cause the company to be taken to court and heavily fined.