INcidentally, your business about a woman defining her worth by one thing or another is clean off the point. It is a feminist cliche' which I would not touch with a bargepole, because it is still based on the usual "it's all about me me me" crap. It's not about your sense of self-worth; it has FUCKING NOTHING to do with it. It has to do with a human life. If your sense of self-worth depends on murdering a baby, your sense of self-worth can go to Hell. And will.