You did not know anything about my life and made an assumption that was almost grotesquely wrong. I know everything anyone can know about rape without having actually suffered it; and I know about as much as one can about the use of violence in personal relationships. And I regard your attempt to "pull rank" on me about rape as nothing short of moral blackmail. Now will you please stop this nonsense? I did not mean to injure your feelings, and I am sorry if I did, but I suggest that a fondness for homosexual pornography is a poor position to try to assert one's moral superiority over anyone.