I just... I can't, I guess. I have people on my reading list whom I know I will always provoke an angry reaction if I post stuff like this, and to some degree that's a purpose in itself, as I have many fewer readers than you so I don't need to worry about getting zergrushed or anything.

On the other hand I use my journal sometimes as a trial run of arguments I know I'll need to make IRL; I don't have any Catholic friends IRL, and honestly "I guess you have a point" or "well I don't want to argue with you any more" are sufficient victories for me, as long as I feel that I've been well-prepared.