The previous entry has been deleted...

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...to be fair to the person concerned, who has corrected the problem it highlighted. Since it had also drawn some thoughtful comments from old and new friends, I have saved it to my personal memories. (That is, everyone who has written in, you have not wasted your time.)

Comments

[dreamer-marie.livejournal.com]

Me too! Me too!

[fpb.livejournal.com]

Check my answer.

[fpb.livejournal.com]

I don't think you should rush ahead with hope. If you are betting your shirt on reconciliation, I should take the shirt back and put it in a locked cupboard.

[dreamer-marie.livejournal.com]

I'm not betting my shirt, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed. I know you're a magnanimous person, and I also know that Gun is really sorry for what she said.

[fpb.livejournal.com]

Hmmm... I will delete this, I'm afraid. Not because I'm offended or anything, but because I think there is something wrong about you taking on yourself to speak for Gun. I will remember what you said, however.

[dreamer-marie.livejournal.com]

No problem.

[mincot.livejournal.com]

Excellent choice; good for you :)

[fpb.livejournal.com]

Check my answer to carlanime.

[gunderpants.livejournal.com]

It's taken me a little while to getting back officially to you with my now-taken-time-to-cool-down-and-stop-freaking-over-health-woez.

First, good on you for getting the debt cleared. Hopefully it'll ease some of your stresses.

I said a lot of stuff that was far too heated last week, and for that I apologise. I need to say in all honesty that I didn't appreciate having my personal issues aired as an excuse for what happened last week, if only because I never use them to excuse my own actions and I don't believe they should be used to excuse anybody else's. I may be younger than you, and I may have had my problems, but it certainly doesn't influence what I say or do, or the validity of what I say and do, and without trying to be rude I found a little of your excuse post a bit patronising of me.

I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself, and to be honest there isn't as much 'widespread hostility' toward me as one might think. I understand you were in a difficult situation last week, as was I.

I won't be refriending you, but you're no longer banned at my LJ, and if you'd like to make any posts (that aren't inflammatory) you are more than welcome to and maybe I will assess the refriending situation as we go along. I know that you genuinely are a decent person with a lot of great traits, but I truly think that things got a bit too vicious last week from all sides. If you'd like people to see the person I got to know, you've got to show all your best sides. Your angriest side is not your best one, btw.

Best wishes, and hopefully your lousy-ass telco will sort itself out.
Gun