Reflections of a stormy petrel

I don't think the fact whether somebody might or might not have been an unwanted baby has anything to do with whether they have valid views. I mean, my parents didn't want me either, but I'm pro-choice. I think you have the right to speak about your views. As do everybody else with differing opinions. You have the right to go and try to change the law. But while the law allows abortion, you certainly don't have the right to stop anybody from getting one.

And just randomly, if you want an example of somebody who just scraped through, take my cousin. My aunt had an appointment with a doctor to get him aborted, except the doctor was sick on the day. The same thing happened the next time around so she figured that obviously the abortion wasn't going to happen and decided to have him.

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Hello, Ayla.

But while the law allows abortion, you certainly don't have the right to stop anybody from getting one.
That's a red herring. I never said anything about stopping anyone doing anything. (I would certainly argue against their doing so, but not try to stop them by force. Although if I were in a relationship with that person, that would definitely be the end of it.) And in a discussion with

ani_bester, I mentioned the guy who murdered abortionists as an instance of a home-grown American terrorist who had to be fought.

And people will have views. Even when I regard those views as wrong or even as stupid, I will not step outside the law to force them. At worst, I will bend your ear, or, in cases as nasty as that of

wudjuwait, tell you that you are not worth the trouble. As long as you understand that I will do everything legal and just to stop abortion, we understand each other.

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Hi! :)

Although if I were in a relationship with that person, that would definitely be the end of it.

Same for me. Except, obviously the other way around. If I were pregnant and my partner wanted me to keep the child during a time where I obviously wouldn't be suited to caring for the child, then it would be a relationship-breaker. It's funny how many couples don't talk about this until they reach this stage. Most people I know feel very strongly about abortion, one way or the other.

As long as you understand that I will do everything legal and just to stop abortion, we understand each other.

Yes. As long as you understand I would do anything and everything legal to ensure all women have the right to abortion regardless of race, religion, or any other issues.

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regardless of race, religion, or any other issues
Why do you keep bringing in red herrings? Who the Hell ever mentioned race or any other group membership whatsoever? Is it not obvious that my whole argument is based on the opening sentences of the Declaration of Independence? Why this passion for wholly irrelevant additions? There is something here that I do not like, as if you are trying to insinuate that I somehow promote ideas that I, in fact, directly oppose. Please lay off the red herrings.

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Out of curiosity, what would be your view if the woman wanted to keep the baby, but her partner wanted an abortion? Obviously the woman would probably end up keeping the child, but would the guy be obliged to pay child support?

I realise that many cases on child support are based on this very scenario, but there's always something a bit unfair about it. I just think it's a bit unfortunate for the guy if a) the woman cannot afford to look after said kid, and b) the woman chose to have the baby.

Sorry. It's a bit of a vague point. I just feel a general sense of unease when thinking of the fact guys have to pay child support for something that may have arisen out of a one night stand wherein the woman made the conscious decision to KEEP the child. I can't think of a better system, but yeah.

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My view would be that the man is a creep and deserves punishment - in particular, by totally forbidding access to the baby. And yes, he would have to pay support. If he did not want a baby, he should have kept his sexual organs to himself. End of story.

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"If he did not want a baby, he should have kept his sexual organs to himself. End of story."

Sadly, that notion of personal responsibility sounds almost like crazy talk(to men and women alike) in our culture.

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It does not to me, though I rarely had the opportunity to put it to the test. As I said once or twice, I am repulsive to women. So of course it's easier for me to say than for Mick Jagger. But if I ever do get involved with anyone, it is with the principle that if it happens, it happens, and I take my responsibility.

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"You have the right to go and try to change the law. But while the law allows abortion, you certainly don't have the right to stop anybody from getting one."

I recently saw the movie Amazing Grace, about the life and career of William Wilberforce, and his work to abolish slavery in the U.K.

Arguments in favour of continuing slavery could have been (and sometimes were) almost identical to yours: "You have the right to try to change the law; but while the law allows slavery, you don't have the right to stop anyone from owning one."

Wilberforce, Abraham Lincoln (in the U.S.) and others worked within the law, to end slavery by legislation, but their efforts were augmented and given impetus by the parallel efforts of many people who tried, by both legal means and by methods that were technically illegal, to free slaves and to help escaped slaves to find a way to freedom -- in effect, to stop people from owning slaves. Without the "Underground Railroad", which helped escaped slaves reach safety in Canada, but violated the "Fugitive Slave Act", the U.S. might still have had slavery well into the 20th century!

I am against the use of violence to try to stop abortions. Killing doctors who perform abortions seems inconsistent to me. And I would generally prefer to see people stay within the law. But I would certainly support the use of every means available within the law to stop people from taking the lives of other humans that are dependent on them, whether infants already born, or those not yet born.

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"You have the right to try to change the law; but while the law allows slavery, you don't have the right to stop anyone from owning one."

Well as much as I am against slavery, I would agree with that argument.

In any case, I don't believe slavery and abortion are even on the same scale. One subjugates a fully formed human being. The other gets rid of a bunch of cells.

In any case, I'll be very glad if abortion is still around in 200 years time.

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You ARE a bunch of cells. All living creatures are a "bunch of cells." (barring single-cell organisms, such as a virus, which are still in dispute)

The only difference between you and a child which can be aborted, biologically, is location.

A human inside the womb can be killed.

A child outside of the womb, (thanks to the born-alive infant protection act) cannot be killed.

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If the fetus can't live outside the womb; it isn't alive. If it can be kept alive on an artificial respirator, then it's a baby. If it can't, it isn't.

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So, since you can't live outside of an environment without harmful elements and with the proper oxygen level, you're not alive?

Since you can't live without the proper forms of feeding, you're not alive?

Please don't try to re-define "life" as "able to live as I do, maybe with help." (Unless, of course, you've got a really good reason you can expound here?)

Unless you truly believe that life somehow appears at some point around extrauterine viability-- in which case the definition of "life" would change, depending on the available technology-- you might want to find another word.

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Unless you truly believe that life somehow appears at some point around extrauterine viability

Actually, yes, I do believe in this.

Perhaps 'life' wasn't the best term, but there really isn't a good term for it. A fetus, in my eyes, is a potential human until it can live outside the womb.

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"I don't believe slavery and abortion are even on the same scale. One subjugates a fully formed human being. The other gets rid of a bunch of cells."

Let's look at that statement from a couple of different points of view.

"I don't believe slavery and abortion are even on the same scale."

There's also another way in which they are not "on the same scale." Abortion kills; slavery only "subjugates". While there are some people who would rather be dead than be enslaved, most people prefer to stay alive. As the maxim says, "Where there's life, there's hope."

"One subjugates a fully formed human being. The other gets rid of a bunch of cells."

First, few abortions are carried out when the child that has been conceived is still only a "blob" of undifferentiated cells. By the time most abortions are carried out, the baby is already recognisable as such -- a tiny but already "formed" human baby. "Viability" used to be the test -- could the infant survive outside of the mother's womb? But, on the one hand, medical science is constantly pushing back the date at which such survival is possible; on the other hand there is the particular abomination of the so-called "partial birth abortions."

Second, similar arguments could be advanced for all kinds of "inferior" groups. Not just the unborn, but newborns, and, indeed, all children, are not yet fully functioning and contributing members of society. Neither are the mentally handicapped. Can I take it that you also support infanticide and the culling of mental deficients? (See also my earlier comments on "Drawing the line.")

It is possibly to logically defend almost any position by appealing to differing standards and differing premises. Just because a certain view happens to be popular or unpopular at a given time doesn't make it right or wrong. It helps to have an objective standard. You have appealed to the law. But, as you pointed out yourself, laws can be changed. Most, if not all, of what the Nazis did to the Jews was legal by the laws they had enacted.

As a Christian, I am happy that an objective standard for right and wrong exists that does not change. It is commonly known as "The Holy Bible."

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Ah, but Ayla (

curia_regis) is not a Christian, and nor, to be fair, is the majority of the human race. If we want to win the argument about abortion, we have to argue as if the Bible weren't there. That is what I usually do.

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In general, I agree, and that is also what I usually do -- which is why, in all the comments I have posted here so far on this subject (thank you for allowing them), this is the first time I have said anything about being a Christian, and even here I did not advance any specifically Christian arguments regarding the abortion issue.

My point here was something different. I was pointing out the difficulty of reaching full agreement on the subject without some kind of common starting point in the form of an objective standard that we can all agree on, or at least some kind of hierarchy of values that we all subscribe to. Without one, even the genocide practiced by Hitler, Pol Pot, Idi Amin and many others can be defended logically by those who accept the values and standards they did.

In that context, it seemed appropriate to declare what my own ultimate standard is. Perhaps I stated it somewhat belligerently. If so, I apologise.

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fpb says, I'm not a Christian. I plead almost total ignorance to the Bible. However, from what I have heard/read about it, it seems to contradict itself a lot.

In any case, I don't see how a book written 2000 years or so ago could have relevance to today's life. The Bible has no concept of modern technology or modern values.

I have difficulty seeing a day when, say, a six week old fetus can survive outside the mother's womb. I could be proven wrong, but

I'm not saying that abortions should happen because the unborn aren't fully functioning members of society. I'm saying that they should happen when the unborn are not capable of surviving outside the woman's body, even with the aid of modern science.

I have difficulty seeing a day when, say, a six week old fetus can survive outside the mother's womb. I could be proven wrong, but I doubt the line would ever be pushed back to that stage unless we manage to create fully functioning artificial wombs.

I don't have an objective standard to appeal to. I agree, laws can be changed. I just have my beliefs and my own standards which, yes, do constantly change when I get new information, but I try my best to operate within my own ethical boundaries. I personally believe this is better than just accepting an outside source as an 'objective standard'.

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"Modern technology" does not imply "modern values". "Values" do not change. You have, for instance, the very same values as an ancient Roman with the power to decide if a child of his lived or died. (Abortion, incidentally, is so modern a technology that the ancient Egyptians and Chinese knew all about it. So, probably, did prehistoric men.) The notion that morality changes to suit the times is the dreariest and most oft-exploded nonsense in the whole panoply of immoralism. Read Plato's Menexenus, and tell me whether there is a single moral issue it deals with that is outdated or irrelevant today. (This does not mean that you have to share his conclusions, which are in my view pretty perverse; but the questions it poses are relevant to anyone with a family, today or ever.) Even better, seeing your background, read Confucius. And reflect on the parable of his thought and influence in modern China. When the Communists needed a justification for their enormous bloodshed and political immorality, they pretended that the course of history had put Confucian morality out of date; when their power was sufficiently consolidated (and the mad emperor - you know who I mean - was safely dead), they suddenly discovered that his teachings had some current value after all. Does this not show that the notion of morality becoming outdated is nothing more than an excuse for contemporaries to do things that are convenient but immoral?

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The Bible also suggests that it is perfectly legitimate to sell your daughter. It proscribes the eating of shellfish, the wearing of mixed cloth, and declares women on their menses to be unclean.

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Your sorry, cheap, uncomprehending, yet clearly well-rehearsed little list of "funny" arguments against what you conceive to be the Bible shows that you are a True Believer with little individual ability to reason on this matter and no interest in anything remotely resembling a debate. You have come here, not to make a point, let alone to listen to anyone who disagrees with you, but to troll. And that being the case, I refuse to answer anything you set out. Keep talking to yourself.

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Not only have I read the Bible at length, but I have studied it in depth at several tertiary institutions. I take offence to your assumption that I am unable to reason with my own opinions and logic on this matter.

I was merely pointing out some of the other things that the Bible says, without even bringing up the fact that nowhere does it mention anything about abortion. And let's not have the Commandment argument - Thou shalt not kill was actually Thou shalt not murder, and if a pregnant women was murdered, the only compensation that was due was that for the woman, not for the unborn child.

I am willing to listen to and respond to rational arguments. The fact that I've seen none here has been what's led to my almost complete silence.

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